Know Your Self Worth

1 Peter 3:3-4 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.

Proverbs 3:15-18 She is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her. Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor. Her ways are pleasant ways, and all her paths are peace. She is a tree of life to those who take hold of her; those who hold her fast will be blessed.

Psalm 139:14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

Most if us don’t know our self-worth. We live in society where it’s ok to call women sexy or hot but I am here to tell you that I will not date a man that calls me either.

Maybe that sounds a little conceited but I know who I am in Christ. And if a guy calls me either of those two things, red flags go up in my brain all over the place.

That tells me the guy isn’t interested in my heart but rather how I look or what I can do for him. I’m sorry but I don’t play that.

Listen up!!! Men looking for a God fearing woman (or husband’s that already have one), be careful what you call her. She is beautiful, she is gorgeous and she is wonderfully made.

Women! Do you not know your worth? Proverbs 31 tells you that you are a daughter of a King! If you can’t tell a guy how to treat you, he will treat you however he wishes. He’ll name you baby momma because that’s how YOU allow him to treat you.

If a guy knows his worth and mistakenly calls you hot, he will not be offended. He will correct himself and his actions “from there on” will prove the words he just spoke.

Let me give you a tip: If he does get offended, chances are he ain’t for you.


Ladies, don’t give the time of day to a guy that seems interested in you if he doesn’t meet your standards.

If a guy that I didn’t know well asked me out these are the questions I’d ask him:

  1. What’s your name?
  2. How’s your faith?

If he can’t answer the second question without a second thought then I kindly decline his offer. I want a guy that also knows his worth in God.

People standards for what you want in a relationship and stick to them!

God will send the right person. Trust His timing. And get healed before you date. If you aren’t you will end up making bad dating choices.

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